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Please note that your fiancee may enter the United States only one time with a fiancee visa. If your fiancee
leaves the country before you are married, your fiancee may not be allowed back into the United States without
a new visa.
If your new spouse will apply to become a legal permanent resident while in the U.S. but also plans to travel
outside the U.S. while the application is pending, see Have a Pending Immigration Application?.Beware of Foreign
Travel.
After arriving in the United States, your fiancee will be eligible to apply for a work permit. (You should note
that USCIS might not be able to process the work permit within the 90-day time limit for your marriage to take
place.) Your fiancee should use Form I-765 to apply for a work permit. Please see Obtaining a Work Permit for
more information. If your fiancee applies for adjustment to permanent resident status after the wedding, your
fiancee must re-apply for a new work permit.
In most Asian countries it is customary for young people to remain at home until they are married and often a newlywed couple will live with one set of parents for awhile after they are married.
Japanese and Korean individuals usually do not begin dating until they are in college.
In China, dating usually does not begin until an individual is in their twenties. Chinese singles usually only date one or two people before they get married. There are also still instances of arranged marriages. It's important to understand the difference between how men and women are raised in traditional Asian society, because it can affect your dating experience.
* Women are raised to be respectful of men and to defer to them in most matters. The woman's job in the relationship is to take care of the man's daily needs.
* Men are traditionally raised to be providers and to protect the women in their family. They will naturally take the lead in a relationship.
Family ties run deeply within Asian families, and even Americanized single Asians still get a lot of input on their dating partners from well-meaning parents. This means that when you date an Asian, you will likely be dating his or her parents to a certain extent. Expect to be thoroughly scrutinized, although it will be done respectfully. Parents want to be sure the person their child is dating is safe and suitable.
For your part, be sure to show respect for the feelings of your date's parents. This will assure them of your honorable intentions toward their child and will help smooth the path for further relationship development in case the two of you hit it off. I
